Post by HOLLY NOEL
What Are You Hoping for This Christmas?

Have you ever wondered why Christmas has such a powerful effect on people?
What causes people to stand in the freezing cold for hours to purchase a gift? Is it really just about getting a deal or watching the excitement in a loved ones eyes, or is there something deeper going on?
Why are some of us putting up trees earlier each year or listening to Christmas music in October?
Whether it is excitement, dread or anger over the holiday, there is no denying Christmas evokes a range of strong emotions.
As I’ve thought about this, I think I may have gotten a little clarity as to why, but I will let you be the judge of that.
And I’ll get to that in a minute, because first I want to share a little bit of my story with you.

I was born on December 22 and my parents named me Holly Noel. I was brought home on Christmas Day in a stocking with a Santa hat on my head. I really had no choice but to love Christmas, or this could have been quite heartbreaking or embarrassing for my parents.
Obviously as you know now, my mother and father both loved Christmas. They both could decorate the prettiest tree you have ever seen, and every year my mother spent hours wrapping each gift meticulously with beautiful ribbon and handmade bows.
So Christmas has always been a big deal in my world.
And that’s why 19 years ago for our honeymoon, my husband took me to Frankenmuth, Michigan and to Bronner’s.
You can imagine the look on this Christmas girl’s face when she saw the World’s Largest Christmas Store for the first time. I still get giddy 19 years later when we go around the bend and I see the chapel. I think most of us who have been to Bronner’s can attest to the fact it brings out the kid in each of us.


A few years ago we took my dad with us on our annual trip because he had never been there.
While we were in the store, he snuck away for a few minutes. When he came back, he was like a kid in a candy store (or shall I say Christmas store), and couldn’t wait to give me the gift he had made. It was a beautiful red ornament that lit up and he had it personalized with my birthday and this inscription: My Angel, Holly Noel.
The next part of the story is the part I wish I didn’t have to tell you.
A couple of years ago my father passed away and Christmas, as you can imagine, has not been the same.
The first two years were so hard I wondered if I would ever be able to find the joy I once had in the season.

During our most recent trip to Bronner’s, as I walked through the store looking at all the twinkling lights, I began to hum my favorite song, “O Holy Night.”
As I got to my favorite line, “A thrill of hope, the weary world rejoices,” it hit me why Christmas has such a powerful effect on so many of us.
It’s the thrill of hope.

The night Christ was born God announced His hope to the world.
And the writer who penned the song knew exactly what he was talking about. Is there anything more thrilling than hope to our weary souls?
Now, add to the thrill of the hope the thrills of Christmas. The beauty of Christmas with the traditions, the colors, the magic, the parties.
And as our world gets harder and scarier, and as our need for hope is rising, we are grasping for the thrills much earlier and with more intensity.
But this is the part where we as humans lose our focus.
We get so caught up in the experiences and thrills of Christmas, we put the gift of hope underneath all the other packages and then wonder on Christmas Day if we missed it.
This year when I hung my dad’s ornament on the tree, I realized I could grieve but still have the joy Christmas has always given to me. Because what I realized is my hope is not found in a day, but a Savior.
If you and I bring into Christmas expectations for a perfect day with perfect circumstances, we will be sorely disappointed. But if we place our hope in a perfect Savior, that changes everything.
When my hubby and I left Bronner’s that night, I took a picture of this gorgeous hand-painted angel they have on one of their outside windows.
I stood there staring at it for a few minutes, and I closed my eyes for a moment, trying to picture the night our Lord was born. I imagined what the angels’ voices must have sounded like as they gloriously sang:
“Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace, good will toward men.”

May we join them in their singing, my friends, and bow down in adoration to Immanuel, Christ our King.
May we have fun decking our halls, give to others and enjoy the season – but let’s not forget what our hearts are truly seeking is something we already have:
a Savior who came to rescue and save us all.
Merry CHRISTmas.

Holly is a wife, mother, blogger and speaker. She has written for various publications and has a Christmas series every year on her blog called Deck Your Halls & Hearts with Holly. You can find her at HollyNoelHaynes.com and also on her author page on Facebook.








This was a beautiful & perfect post for me, since I lost the love of my life & soulmate of 42 years a little over 4 months ago. I almost didn’t open this Bronner’s email as I knew I wasn’t planning to order any ornaments this year. What a coincidence it seemed that it was all about remembering those we’ve lost & memorializing them. But I feel that it was not a coincidence at all, because I’ve never seen an email on this subject any other year, so it seems very intentional & directed to me – a little divine intervention. I’m not doing Christmas at my house this year, but I plan to do it again starting next year – I just don’t have the heart for it this time. And I think I will definitely use at least one of these ideas shown to honor him. Thank you for creating something that feels like it was sent directly to just me, even though the tears flowed yet again.
Deborah, I am so sorry for the recent loss of your loved one. I know that doesn’t ease the heaviness your heart must surely feel, but thank God we know the One who can! His presence isn’t found in the lights or packages or bows, but those things will be there to bring you CHRISTmas joy when you feel ready again. Thank you for taking the time to share with us. Our prayer is that amidst the stillness of this Holy celebration of Christ’s birth, you find the Comforter He has promised to us in a new way and that you experience the peace that surpasses all understanding! “Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.” John 14:27 God’s blessings!
Thank you so much for this beautiful post! I lost my husband in early June of 2024. We were together 40 years! I am very thankful that I had him for that long, but I wanted more time together. It has been very hard to go on alone especially at night. We traveled a lot and I have those memories but he is not in many pictures as he never wanted his picture taken. I know he is in a better place and no longer in pain, but I miss him every day. My church family has been wonderful and I so appreciate them as well as friends and my 2 brothers also! Thank you for allowing me this time to comment.
Roxanne, to offer my condolences seems so trivial to the void I know you must feel, here on earth, in the absence of his presence after a beautiful life together for 40 years. My prayer for you as you continue to adjust to your new normal, is that you will experience the love and peace of our heavenly Father that makes that void, not hollow, but hallowed! I wish to thank YOU for taking the time to share with us! God bless you through this season, and always!
What a wonderful post! Thank you for this.